How long should relationships last?

If you've ever been in a romantic relationship, you've probably asked yourself whether it's heading somewhere serious or whether it's just a fling. The older you get, the more serious relationships tend to feel — partly because life itself gets more serious, and partly because you know more clearly what you want.

So start with the honest question: what are you actually looking for right now? A long-term partner? Someone to talk to at the end of the day? A confidence boost while you get back into dating? There's no wrong answer, but different answers call for different kinds of relationships.

Nobody will meet 100% of your wants, and relationships last longest when both people are clear about expectations. That's one reason some men choose a companion service: the terms are clear from day one. A GFRental companion offers warmth, attention and a weekly call — strictly platonic, with no pressure on either side.

Whatever you choose, the relationships that last share the same basics: honesty about what you want, consistency, and genuine curiosity about the other person.